High school it's all about puberty and hitting those awful hormones. Once you reach those stages it's hard to control. I know it's near the end of the year and I am posting this late, but better late than never. I am going to talk about the sex hormones.
And I warn you this will get awkward.
For many, once they get their hormones they have needs and get horny. And once they see a really hot/cute person they just "need" to have them. After a while or so the person would want to think that it is "the time" to do. And they would either talk the other person into it.
For most males they would be glad to have sex (with a person that is really cute/hot or if they just love the them).
For most girls they want to wait for the perfect time and the right person to have sex with. Unless they are whore/sluts then they want the attention and are lonely.
But you can't forget the people that are abstinence. They wait until they are married to have sex.
Back to the point.
Once they have sex some forget to use protection or it breaks. This most times leaves the girls pregnant. Hense making both teenagers' parents angry.
And it happens that sometimes the girl would get an abortion, because she either can't handle it or she doesn't want it.
Another thing that sometimes happens is that the boy would leave the girl with the baby and have no connection with it.
Both scenarios happen. And some times:
- The boy wants to keep the baby, but the girl doesn't- hense the abortion.
- They both don't want the baby and the girl doesn't want to feel the pain- abortion.
- They both want the baby and keep it.
- The girl has the baby, but gives it away to adoption.
There could be other scenarios that I didn't mention but the point I am trying to make is that teenagers are driven by their ragging hormones and that could cause the teenagers to make huge mistakes. Parents need to be aware of their teenagers and to know that when they were teenagers with the same needs, that it hasn't changed for teenagers now. Also that teenagers have to be careful and to think before they act. Being a high schooler is not that difficult to not think and be more careful.
Everyone makes mistakes, because they are not aware of the consequences of their actions. For one consequence becoming or getting someone pregnant is a huge consequence and huge responsibility.
To conclude teengagers need to be more responsible and more alert in what could happen in life.
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I'm just glad I'm no longer a teen and don't have to worry about any of this any longer!!! Whew. But if a girl wanted to get an abortion simply to avoid pain, I think it's already too late for that. She's going to be feeling some ouch no matter what by that point. I've heard they are not painless and also that many times you come close to bleeding to death. It seems like a difficult issue all around.
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