Monday, April 12, 2010

Break Up part 2: After

Coming back to the drama of break ups, I want to talk more about the after-matter.

Some teens, after the break up, are still hung over their ex. Wanting to get back together or wanting to be friends with benefits. They are obsessed with keeping that one person stay in their life and not letting go.
This feeling is some times for both people- the dumper or the dumpee. And some times for all the situations.

On the other side, the rest of the teens that are dumped are just pissed off. They want nothing to do with their exes, they never want to see them ever again, or they want to ruin their life until they move- which, to me, is very childish.
While the dumpee is pissed, the dumper is either relieved or they feel guilty for hurting them. And there's the possibilities of feeling scared of what will happen next or that they rather don't care about what the dumpee will do or how they feel; they just want to move on.

On another hand, their are some couples that agree that "it isn't working out" and to just stay friends or not to bother each other anymore. Couples that are on good terms and that don't want to get into that kind of break up drama.
People that can move on and not take it seriously.

One situation is that both the exes are angry with each other and want the other to live in hell.

There are probably more after-matters I didn't mention. But these are just the major common ones that happen.

I hope this clears up the situations of break ups that teens have to deal with.

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