Friday, April 9, 2010

Drama of a Break up

One thing to be most aware of about a teenager, is their love life. There is enough drama that is involved to lose comtrol of oneself.

One thing I want to talk about first is the breaking up part and how tragic it is for both parts. I'm not talking about the on-off relationship kind,- which are very annoying and meaningless to me- but I'm talking about the "That's it. It's over" kind.
Some of these tragic break ups are from long distant relationships, serious relationship, and/or your first boyfriend/girlfriend.

All around me I hear about people breaking up and/ or thinking about it.

I wanted to talk about break ups because a close person I know just broke up with her first boyfriend and she regrets it because she still likes him and is thinking about going back out, but he's not sure if he wants to go back out with her.
The thing is he wasn't doing anything romantic with her. She felt like she was still just friends with him, like nothing changed. But she finally admits that she hasn't been doing anything either.

This probably happened to so many people. There's so much drama that either the boy or girl is annoying their friends about the break up and doesn't know what else to do.

Then there's the fact of planning the break up.

Most break ups don't go as planned. Some are so hurtful that they can't be finished.
The result of break ups are a handful and some times both people get lost in what to do next.
Break ups are not easy and they are some times serious, like cheating, abuse and breaking up after having sex- either from getting what you want or leaving because the girl is pregnant.

What teens have to look out for are the mistakes that could happen in a relationship. Teens get too attached and they lose control once it's over. There's so much drama that they can break down you and your friends.

I'll probably come back to this topic, since there is loads to talk about.

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